Some2day

Fear is a powerful poison but it’s not the most dangerous toxin when it comes to the core of our daily life, as well as our plans for the new year.

It’s a surprisingly peaceful looking word that actually ruins more plans than any other obstacle.

What Apocalyptic dragon is this? What demon is lurking just outside our calendar/scheduler/agenda, ready to be used and overused?...

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...It’s the word “someday.”

- Someday is where most of us store our dreams.

- Someday I will straighten up my life.

- Someday I will start a business.

- Someday I will be more involved in church activities.

- Someday I will let him/her know how I really feel.

- Someday I will go on that mission trip.

- Someday I will lose that weight.

Someday, someday, someday…

If people would say, “I will never accomplish this or that”, the finality of that would shame most of them into some action. But they don’t - instead they’ll believe the deceit of “someday”. Are you one of them?

Esop, the Greek philosopher and writer, tells a story of a man who had been away on a journey and had then come back home. He strutted about town, talking loudly and at great length about the brave deeds he had accomplished in the various lands he had visited. In Rhodes, the man said, he had jumped such a long jump that no man alive could equal it, and he claimed that there were witnesses who could back up his story. A bystander then remarked, "Hic Rhodus, hic salta" - in translation: Alright! If you're telling the truth, here is your Rhodes: go on and jump right now!

 Today is “someday”.

Please, scratch out the word “someday” from calendar. It’s wrong. It is not Monday or Tuesday or whatever day it says.

Today is someday and we should know that every day, our actions determine if this will be someday or just another ordinary day. I don’t know about you but my New Years’ resolution-prayer is that SOMEDAY = TODAY for the entire year.

I choose someday to be today.

I choose that this is the day that the dreams of tomorrow for me, my family and my church are supposed to begin.

I choose not to hide the hope in a future that will never arrive. It’s here.

I choose to believe God's promises not someday but right here and right now 

Today is someday.

What are you going to begin today?

Have blessed New Year and keep going strong for He is strong!

More Than You Cand Handle - Christian Cliché

While cleaning the office, I discovered a couple of my old journals. I read words I had written years before: “God, I don’t know what to do, I can’t handle this anymore…”

And suddenly I remembered when the circumstances my life had become overwhelming, everything was crumbling, and my world was falling apart.

To be honest, if someone had come alongside me at that point and tried to reassure me by saying, “God won’t give you more than you can handle,” I may have replied – oh, just a cliché packed in a conventional “sorry-for-you-bro”…

That overused old phrase often sounds more like a taunt than a comfort. When we are down and out and feeling discouraged, hearing those words can cause us to feel like we are not measuring up. It causes us to ask, “If I am supposed to handle this, then why can’t I handle it?”

THE TRUTH IS, GOD NEVER SAID HE WOULDN’T GIVE YOU MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE. There will be times in life when you will feel like you are drowning and there is no one to help you.

The words that are meant for encouragement can often serve to only create discouragement. Worse yet, this phrase can tempt us to ignore our suffering and pretend it’s not there. It can lead us to believe the lie that we can do it ourselves; that we can handle it. Which raises the question, “If we can handle anything that comes our way, then why do we need God at all?”

We need to realize that sometimes we can’t make it on our own.

So, where did the phrase about God not giving us too much come from? To answer that question, we need to go back 2,000 years to a small church in the city of Corinth. The Apostle Paul wrote them a couple of letters, and in his first, he reminded them that all people are tempted and often choose to do the wrong thing. Paul’s warning is tied to the reality of temptation and sin that meets us everyday.

With his warning, he also gave a promise. He wrote, “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it” (1 Corinthians 10:13). This is the verse that is so often misquoted.

With regard to temptation and sin, Paul pointed out that we always have a choice: engage in sin or run from it. The promise is that God will always provide a way for us to run from it.

Let’s be clear: Paul was talking about temptation, not suffering.

With temptation, we have a choice, but with suffering we often don’t have a choice.

Some time ago, I sat with a good friend who had just learned of his son’s terminal diagnosis. He wept and said, “I’d do anything to give my life for him.” It was one of the most powerless feelings I have ever experienced. All we could do was sit together and weep.

He did not choose this. Michael Hildago (UnLost: Being Found by the One We Are Looking For) wrote that in moments like these we feel ground to dust. Rather than stand and proclaim that we can handle it, we should imitate Jesus.

The night before Jesus was executed, He cried out in the garden, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death” (Matthew 26:38). Jesus told His father, “This is too much for me!”

We see this kind of thing in the Psalms, too. The Psalmists ball their fists in rage, and shout at God, “Why have you forsaken me?” (Psalm 22) In their sadness they say, “darkness is my closest friend” (Psalm 88).

What these verses teach us is that it’s OK to feel like we can’t handle it, like we are going to give up. We can cry out, “My soul is overwhelmed to the point of death.” And when we do this, we find God—the one who, in the person of Jesus, suffers with us.

When we become aware that life will give us more than we can handle and come to grips with this, we find a promise: God is faithful to meet us in the mess and in the pain.

And when He does, we learn to recognize our constant need to depend on Him. This is why Peter instructs the Church to cast our fears, worries, suffering and pain on God. He reasons we can do this because God cares for us. When life deals us more than we can handle, we can rest in the reality that God can handle it.

But, if we’re honest, even this can seem like a tired old phrase. Because when it really hurts, God can seem so far away. This is where you and I come in. We need each other to move ahead, and we need far more than old clichés.

In times when life becomes unmanageable, we need to be willing to walk alongside one another. When we do this, we put flesh and bone on the person of Jesus. We can be with one another in the midst of suffering, helping each other carry the weight. Which means, that we, as the Body of Christ, have an opportunity.

It's All About Me...

According to Christianity Today, these are the top ten New Year's resolutions:

1.    Lose weight

2.    Get organized

3.    Spend less, save more

4.    Enjoy life to the fullest

5.    Stay fit and healthy

6.    Learn something new and exciting

7.    Quit smoking

8.    Help someone else achieve their dreams

9.    Fall in love

10. Spend more time with family

From another angle, the top resolutions fall into the following categories (it's greater than 100% because people chose multiple resolutions):

·         Self-improvement or education resolutions—47%

·         Weight related resolutions—38%

·         Money related resolutions—34%

·         Relationship related resolutions—31%

The study didn't mention any resolution about spiritual growth or spiritual disciplines. Unfortunately the self still a priority...

How about you and your resolutions? Same old - same old? "More money and less pounds"? Don't you think it should be something about Him too?...